User blog comment:Suebeesee/Snow Queen OC's/@comment-25317258-20150623020403/@comment-26208189-20150623021034

Exactly. But here's an idea I have always been planning to use but never did, so you can take it:

They don't want their destiny, but they want to be like their parents. They try to act like their parents as much as possible, but it's just not them. They want to make their parents proud. They act like their parents, talk like their parents and even eat like their parents, but it is never really the real them.

It's up to you to expand on that idea...